Yep all good, working a normal job again finally without having to miss that too. Thanks for the kind words too, you really have no clue how much it means to a person who was in my situation to know someone, even online friends, care.
I did get prepaired though incase i make the cut, have a nice stack of 20 Epic gems sitting in my bank waiting to to into my dps gear!
Ashin has had me on realid for a long time, those of you who know me and want to chat are welcome to add me as well bartee3 at cox dot net as always been a pleasure talking with you, no matter the decision made.